When there are dramatic world events, such as the pandemic, it is natural to want to send healing to the world. When we are touched by such events, empathising with those who are suffering, it is natural to want to do something.
However, I recall hearing Phyllis Furumoto advising against sending Reiki to world events. Instead she suggested we examine what it is in ourselves that is touched by this particular event and send Reiki to that. I resonate with this suggestion.
I too am touched by things I hear on the news. I would like to be able to help, but given that I do not know the people involved how can I know whether my help would be welcomed or my assessment of the situation accurate? Am I trying to fix something that isn’t broken due to my own filters and assumptions about how I would feel in the same situation? Does this event resonate with something in myself that needs healing?
When my thoughts caught up in an external drama, I can miss things that are closer to hand, like when I was out walking with a dog recently and, preoccupied with some world drama, failed to notice that the dog was having difficulty walking due to the thistles and nettles that were pricking her paws! In a similar way we can miss signs and clues about our own health and that of those around us, while worrying about the problems of someone we don’t even know.
I understand the desire to change the world for the better, to heal what we see as wrong or the suffering we perceive. Working towards a better world is a wonderful thing to do, but to achieve transformation many teachers have counselled that we start with ourselves. Gandhi for example advised “Be the change you want to see in the world” and as Michael Jackson suggests in his song ‘Man in the Mirror’: “If you want to make the world a better place; Take a look at yourself and then make that change”. One of the core teachings of Reiki is that we start with self-healing, which prepares us for healing others.
By becoming a calmer, happier person through our Reiki practice we make a difference in the world. Once we are healthy and resilient enough, we can be more effective in creating change. This will be most effective when we focus on something concrete in our immediate sphere, where the help is welcomed and needed.
A great example of this is a new project – Reiki Medic-Care - that is sending Reiki directly to individual doctors, nurses and paramedics who are suffering stress and burnout through being on the front line in the current circumstances. If you want to send Reiki to help the pandemic, rather than sending to ‘the NHS’ in a general way, this project offers a way to give concrete help - more practitioners are needed to meet the anticipated requests.
There is no issue about permission because the staff request treatment themselves. Practitioners know who they are sending to and have a time requested by the recipient at which to send. This exciting project uses Reiki to support people who are in need, improving the well-being of NHS staff. This will no doubt also benefit the patients they treat whose doctors, nurses and paramedics will be less overwhelmed, stressed and exhausted.
So we can still benefit the wider world by focusing first on our own well-being, then that of our immediate community or another community we have personal connection with.
Kate Jones has been a Reiki master since 1991. She is as passionate about Reiki now as she was when she first learned. In this blog she muses on the value of Reiki in daily life and shares her experiences of Reiki as a practice and a spiritual path relevant for today.
Wednesday, 14 October 2020
Healing for the World
Wednesday, 9 September 2020
The Value of Rest
One of the great benefits of Reiki is that it encourages us to rest. Reiki treatment, whether self-treatment, hands on or distant, is not generally received while doing something else or rushing around. We are encouraged to lie down or sit for thirty minutes to an hour to receive the treatment. One of the people I regularly send distant Reiki to commented that if nothing else it means she lies down and rests for half an hour.
We need to rest because it is during the body’s resting state that we heal, both physically and mentally. When we are in a stressful state most of our energy is diverted away from our immune system and other important bodily functions such as digestion, to make energy available for fighting for our lives or running away. When your life is at stake you have no time to digest a steak! At a time when we need our immune systems to be strong in the face of the novel coronavirus, it is therefore more important than ever that we remain as much as possible in the resting state.
Sleep is the obvious time we rest and quality of sleep also matters. A stressful day can cause poor sleep, because there is an echo of any daytime rise in adrenaline (the stress hormone) during the night, which can cause us to wake up and possibly find it difficult to go back to sleep. We need a certain amount of deep sleep during each night, which is
the time when repair of the body mostly occurs. We also need to dream, which is healing for the mind. To strengthen my immune system, I always prioritise getting the best sleep I can and I find having Reiki in my hands very helpful for this. I know that many of my students practice their self-treatment at bed-time because it helps them to drift easily into sleep (they often report falling asleep before finishing the hand position sequence). Those who wake in the night also find that it is beneficial to be able to give themselves Reiki which, if it doesn’t help them go back to sleep, is at least healing.
It is important to ensure rest for the mind too. Modern life is full of distractions that keep our minds busy even when we think we are relaxing. Many people find it difficult to stop checking emails or social media on their phones. TV programmes that are violent or where the characters undergo emotional stress, especially if it resonates with our own experience, will get our stress hormones flowing, even though we are slouched on the sofa. This is not real rest.
Some people
turn to mindfulness practices or meditation to help to relax their mind. Reiki is often described as bringing peace of
mind, with many people finding it calms their thinking effortlessly. I remember the first time I experienced this
in the early days of grieving for my father, whose sudden and unexpected death
certainly caused me a high level of stress.
The first full Reiki treatment I received helped me to relax and bring
my mind out of the stressful state into the resting phase. I could not recall ever feeling so calm and
peaceful. It was wonderful!
Lockdown has offered some people a chance to rest, but for some this situation is creating more stress. I hope you are able to find some time to rest and perhaps Reiki can help.
Monday, 10 August 2020
Accessing the Unseen
Reiki practice offers me a way to connect with the unseen, including emotions, mind and the spiritual energy that I believe flows through and connects all things. It is understandable that some people are sceptical about this, yet we all have some experience of things we can’t see, hear, touch, smell or taste. We are all very accustomed now to the invisible waves that connect us via the internet and mobile phones. Such invisible things also exist in Nature – Reiki is how the Japanese would describe the energy you feel in a beautiful forest. The understanding that what is unseen can affect the physical world has long been understood by spiritual teachers. Buddha, for example, said: “We are what we think. All that we are arises from our thoughts”.
In the current situation we are facing a virus invisible to the naked eye that has had the power to change all our lives. Some are sceptical about it, because if you rely primarily on an understanding of the world that is based on your senses, this virus is beyond comprehension. Similarly, it is understandable that some are sceptical about Reiki as an energy that can be transmitted between people at a distance.
Love is an invisible energy that the current situation is showing us that it can still be shared and felt even when we are not able to touch or even be physically in the same space. We can still send our love out into the world, in the same way Reiki can also reach any part of the planet. Perhaps it is when relatives are able to comfort a Covid-19 patient, so that they know they are loved, that gives them a better chance of survival. It is the one factor doctors have no control over that may explain the differing survival rates of those who are most ill.
At present, unable to give Reiki in person,
I feel blessed to be able to continue to offer comfort and support through distant Reiki treatments. It can take a leap of faith to accept that receiving Reiki from any distance is possible, yet experience over many years has shown me that, like love, it can be sent through space and time and is safe for all concerned, even with Covid-19.The Reiki Association Care Service is available for members to request distant Reiki treatments from a team of volunteers. We have received many reports of positive outcomes, unexpected by doctors. We frequently hear of the healing, comfort and peace of mind these treatments bring, including at the end of life. I’ve received similar reports from the treatments that the Community Clinic volunteers have been doing. These reports include better sleep and reduction in need for pain medication.
I am always looking for ways to develop my Reiki practice so, following an inspiration during a self-treatment, I now offer distant Reiki treatments via a live Zoom link, which means that I can be present with the person I am sending to through their treatment via an internet connection and they can be aware of what I am doing. I don’t even need a photograph to send Reiki but meeting via Zoom we are able to see each other and talk before and after the treatment (we can also talk on the phone). Reiki offers many ways to explore the unseen and I am enjoying this time and the opportunity to expand my distant treatment practice.
Friday, 10 July 2020
Why I'm not teaching Online Reiki 1 and 2 Classes
Tuesday, 9 June 2020
Can being more healthy change how Covid-19 might affect me?
At a Reiki retreat a couple of years ago, I caught a nasty
chest bug. Other people in the group become
feverish and ill for several days, with a persistent cough after that. I had feverishness and muscle aches, for
which I took some paracetamol, even though these days I take very little
medication. From past experience I
expected to take more and for these symptoms to last several days, but after 24
hours I felt better, so only took that one dose of paracetamol. I had expected the cough to go on for weeks
and become more severe, but I was completely well within just a few days. I am convinced that the difference was due being
healthier, with an improved immune system, thanks to Reiki and reversing my
diabetes. I believe there is evidence
that having less sugar in your bloodstream is beneficial when fighting infection.