|Kate Jones meets Phyllis Furumoto in 1993|
Friday, 12 April 2019
Phyllis Lei Furumoto, lineage bearer of Usui Shiki Ryoho, came into my life at Kinnersley Castle in She was living in Santa Fe, New Mexico at the time, so found the wet winter weather of the UK very cold! I had been curious to meet the granddaughter of Hawayo Takata, having heard about her from my Reiki master. I was really interested in hearing what Phyllis had to say, as she shared her grandmother’s teachings. I still remember to this day many things she said at that first gathering, such as “I would rather have a reiki treatment from a 1st degree student who practices regularly, than a master who doesn’t”. This was the beginning of a relationship with Phyllis that has been deeply significant both personally and as a Reiki master.Herefordshire in 1993.
My job as Administrator of The Reiki Association gave me further opportunities to meet her over the years. In 1997 I was honoured to be asked to organise an Usui I master’s intensive, an exploration of the 9 Elements and 4 Aspects of Usui Shiki Ryoho. She subsequently asked me to help her to prepare articles for Reiki Magazine International by editing her talks into a readable form. This deepened my understanding further, which has enriched my teaching and practice.
One of the gifts Phyllis had was to see the potential in people and she often encouraged me to “make promises beyond my capacity”. Thanks to Phyllis I found myself travelling to the USA for the 1st time to attend conferences about the Public Practice of Reiki. What we learned at these conferences became useful when discussions about standards for practitioners took place in the UK.
Phyllis was kind and generous, supporting my trips to Idaho for the conferences by inviting me to stay with her. Alec and I were able to return the favour and she came to visit just before we went to China for the first time. She was excited on our behalf and gave us some money to spend. She told me that our trip to the home of tai chi inspired her to visit Japan for the first time.
Phyllis valued authenticity in people and taking part in a 3-year course with her called “Responding with Compassion” helped me to value and express my authentic self. It was during this course that she introduced me to the wonderful Transformation Game.
In 2010, following Phyllis’s cancer diagnosis, I visited her in Arizona, to give support and Reiki during chemo. It was the biggest adventure of my life as she needed me to drive her and I was nervous about driving – especially on the other side of the road! However by the end of the trip, thanks to her excellent driving instruction, I was confident enough to drive myself into the desert alone. One day we played a Transformation Game that led to singing becoming a greater part in my life. Phyllis loved to sing and encouraged me to explore this aspect of myself.
5 years ago, Phyllis asked me to join the Executive Director team of Reiki Foundation International. I agreed and as a result had online meetings with Phyllis and two other Reiki masters almost every Monday. Our explorations together led to a deeper relationship and understanding. It even led me to be able to disagree with her!
In 2017 I made my own visit to Japan on a tour she organised. I am so grateful to have been able to make a pilgrimage to the home of Reiki in her company.
Phyllis has been a teacher, mentor and resource – someone who has guided, inspired and challenged me. We have also shared a deep friendship. It was therefore a great comfort, knowing there was little time left together, to be able to help her with a few final tasks, to give her Reiki, sing together, watch a great movie and finally say goodbye. My friend is gone from this physical world, but all that we shared is part of me and cannot be lost. I am deeply grateful.